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  Friday, January 16, 2004


Non-verbal

One of the things I enjoy during travel is to get an opportunity to see people in their “natural habitat.” Naturally, in order to achieve that as a tourist, you need to find people who will actually allow you into their homes and into their company. I was exceedingly lucky with the German trip in that respect. I stayed for three nights with a family, and I got to meet two groups of people – one my age (30s) and one around my parents’ age (50s to early 60s).

The curious thing was that most of the people I met in the above circumstances spoke no or little English (with the exception of two people). Nevertheless, the interaction was the opposite of frustrating. I tried to accept the natural impediment of verbal communication, and focus on the non verbal to gather data for my observations. In retrospect, I strongly recommend it. I reached the conclusion that you can gather a great deal from observing the physical interaction and body language of people whose spoken language you do not understand. Also, this gave the hostesses the opportunity to feed me as much as they wanted, since I did not know how to politely refuse in German. That and all the Bavarian beer contributed to some personal growth I now need to shed…


6:08:21 PM    

Got to love Cambridge
Yes, you've got to love Cambridge.  My morning meetings and appointments went faster than I had 
expected, and I had an hour or so to kill before a lunch meeting with a friend.  We were meeting at the
 IBM building across the Royal Sonesta in Cambridge.  I decided to get a mug of Starbuck's coffee at
 the Galleria mall and read the paper.  Starbuck's has these comfy chairs and
three of them stood around one table.  Two were occupied, so I took the third.  The occupants were a
 man and a woman.  The woman was in her 30's, looking through some documents.  The man was in
 his 50's or early 60's, just sitting there.  As I was sitting down, I noticed that the documents were what
 looked like a biblical text in the original Hebrew.  I asked the woman in Hebrew how the lessons were 
coming about.  She looked at me incomprehensibly for a while and then explained that she was a PhD 
student in religious studies, studying early Christianity, so she did not know modern Hebrew, but could 
read the old texts.  So we touched upon the Dead Sea Scrolls - nothing new there apparently, and I 
discovered that around the time of Christ there were four rather than three movements in Judaism, the 
fourth being the zealots (besides the harisees, Sadocees and Eeseaites), all according to Josephus 
Flavius.  At that point the older man joined 

the conversation, and we somehow got to an analysis of the nature of youth rebellion against

established cultural norms.  I had to leave to have lunch with my friend, but this was quite a random

hour.


6:06:59 PM    


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