Another voice
As my faithful readers know, it has been very difficult for me to post in a consistent
manner. Because of this, I am soliciting the help of other women in my area. Tonight
My So Called Lesbian Life is thrilled to introduce Scotti Blue. Please leave lots
of comments–she is new to this and would love to hear your thoughts....and
I’m hoping that she will be able to contribute every Thursday–she’s
a woman with a lot to say!
A bit of Blue on Thursday
Hello everyone! My name is Scotti Blue (yes, that is a pen name). I am a professional
journalist but I think I will stick to mostly ramblings here…LOL! I thought
I would share some thoughts with you and maybe you would share some thoughts
with me. I just recently broke up with my girlfriend (it was mutual) so here
are my thoughts on that:
The single life. It has been almost 6 years since I have been on the market.
Two back-to-back 3-year relationships. Big mistake. I had this standard rule
of 6 months between relationships. Yes, I have had that many relationships to
actually have a rule. I can’t help it. I am a hopeless romantic with a
need to be loved. I just keep forgetting that reality thing. I even had a rule
about how long I should date someone before getting serious. I blew that rule
with the last girlfriend since she was an ex-girlfriend. Here is a clue, if
it didn’t work before…
So here I am 33 years old and single again. I am an optimist so I think this
may be fun no matter how scary the little voice in my head says it is. When
we were arguing and I realized this was the end, all I could think was “Great!
Now I have to date again!” That and how quick our last sex was. I think
the last time you sleep with someone ought to be wild, out of this planet, monkey
sex so it can sustain you for that next 6 months that you won’t be dating.
Only once has an ex-girlfriend asked me to have sex with her one more time.
The notion in itself almost made me have a change of heart.
Comments or thoughts? E-mail me.
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