Martini induced rambling
Saturday night I went out partying with friends, and returning home after my share
of martinis, I sat down at my computer. Now, I won’t bother you with a direct
transcript of what I typed (I doubt you could read it anyway!), but here are my
ramblings (with typos corrected):
Singledom
Today I was thinking about singledom vs. coupledom. And it occurred to me that
out of my close friends, there are five couples that I know well enough that
they share intimate details about their relationships with me....out of this
five, four of them are unhappy but staying firmly together. What does this say
about singledom vs. coupledom in our world?
Too much dick
How do you know that you are a lesbian? When confronted with a dick do you prefer
to stare at the wall than at the male member? This happened to me tonight at
a local gay club (male and female). During the show of typical drag queens,
they brought out a male stripper from Orlando. I guess he was cute, and I got
into his showmanship, until he stripped down to his ‘see through’
G-string. I couldn’t handle it! Was I supposed to think that his partially
erect member was attractive? His second number later in the show was a Matrix
take off. I enjoyed this bit . . . long leather coat, Keanu glasses and moves,
but again when it was down to his dick . . . well what can I say? I guess
I am a lesbian!
Late night cravings
I don’t know about your part of the world, but here, when we leave a bar
after 11:00, we head straight to the Taco Bell drive-thru. I did it again on
Saturday night, all the while thinking that if the cops were smart, they would
stake out the Bell knowing that we would all end up there.
Sex and friendship
Tonight, I ran into a friend that I haven’t seen in several years. Of
course we quickly caught each other up on our lives.....”single again?..yeah,
me too”. Then she shared how her last relationship had devolved into no
sex, just great friendship--best friends of course (classic lesbian
bed death). As I briefly shook my head in feigned disbelief, I wondered if I
should feel luckier, because my story was just the opposite–very intense
sex, but the rest fell apart because of mutual control issues. How do we manage
this dance–best friend and hot sexual partner? Is it even possible?
We have all experienced the loss of a relationship. And when you lose your
partner and your best friend at the same time....who do you talk to? Who can
you cry with...who will put you back together? We are left by ourselves realizing
how vulnerable we are when we are single. Is this why so many of us cling to
relationships that aren’t working?
Too many posts and the photos fall off the bottom of the page. So here’s
another one to keep a smile on your face!
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