Do you accept rejection?
Izzy here!
I broke up with my g/f several weeks ago because it was a long distance relationship
and I grew tired of it. I wanted more. I asked her several times to move in
with me but she didn't want to leave her family who only live two hours away.
We were going on our five year anniversary and I certainly thought it was time
to become a real couple.
I met her online and I'll never forget that night. I hadn't laughed like that
in a long time. E-mails followed until trust was built and I gave her my phone
number–since she's ten years younger I thought that I'd let her call me
instead of me getting her number first. This was done to make her feel comfortable.
The day came when we met for the first time and it was understood that she'd
have a friend come with her and I would have a friend with me. She was certainly
different. She was all smiles and giggles when I met her at the door. She went
straight to my kids and introduced herself meanwhile checking me out of the
corner of her eye. We all jumped in the car and went for breakfast.
The strange thing was that she started to drink my cup of coffee. I thought
it was bizarre seeing that we didn't know each other at that level....after
that, I didn't drink the coffee. She was strange but in a interesting way. My
friend and I took her and her friend to a nearby river (Delaware) and she proceeded
to skinny dip. Now I'm just too shy for that but I was amazed at her openness.
She was very generous, had a great sense of humor, and she seemed cool. We fell
in love quickly and have been together on and off for almost five years.
Even though she won't move in, she insisted on having the right to discipline
my children while I was at work. This caused quite a problem in my home. The
kids lost their minds. She would do my laundry but she'd bleach colored clothes
that I had just bought and of course they'd end up in the garbage. Her method
of cleaning was picking everything up and throwing it in the garbage can. Whether
it was toys, clothes, dishes, etc. They'd all go in the garbage if I wasn't
there to catch her. Don't put the stuff away...throw it away! My son's first
hairbrush was found in the trash....Thank God I found it! My clothes that she
didn't like disappeared (they were brand new). Enough was enough.
I ended it but she still insists on calling my office number knowing that I
have to answer my work phone. I know it's her....I can hear her breathing but
she doesn't say anything. She'll call my cell phone and when I don't answer...she'll
call my house phone.
Every phone conversation eventually turns sexual...What are you wearing? That's
all she talks about and I need more than that. Discuss world topics with me,
talk about your goals with me.... Intellectual conversation is what I like .
If I wanted to get off on the phone, I'd call a 900#. LOL.
Have any of you dealt with someone like this? Do you fight rejection or just
move on? How do I get her off my back for good without having to get a restraining
order? LOL Our anniversary is July 3rd and she insists that she's coming here.
I broke up with her......Is she out of her freakin' mind?
--Izzy
10:13:07 PM 
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