 Recently I described
a four-minute exercise to try to improve my posture, breathing and
attention skills. Using a watch set to beep at five minutes to each
hour, I did this, an average of eight to ten times per day, for the
first three weeks of this month:
- Self-awareness:
check and correct your breathing, your posture; assess your physical
comfort, your emotional happiness, your level of intellectual
engagement for what you're doing, and your energy level.
Let-Self-Change as appropriate. (1 minute)
- Nourishment: drink a glass of water, and whatever other nourishment you assess you need. (1 minute)
- Attention:
pay attention and open yourself to where you are, all your senses, and
what's going on around you; make sure you're paying appropriate
attention to the people and animals in your presence; make sure your
current work/play environment is healthy. (1 minute)
- Flexibility & Resilience:
do three cat stretches (upper body) and three hamstring stretches
(lower body); slow yourself down, let go of whatever you were doing, be
in the moment, and ensure you are simply enjoying the passage of time.
(1 minute)
Everybody
I described it to loved the idea, and quite a few people I know have
tweaked it and adopted it themselves. After three weeks of
experimentation, I refined and enhanced it to work even better.
The
first problem I had with the program above was that within a couple of
minutes of checking my breathing and posture I had reverted to
entrenched bad habits again (breathing too rapidly and shallowly
through the chest; slouching, whether sitting or standing). Once an
hour wasn't enough of a reminder to really make a difference. So now
I'm trying another tack with continuous
reminders: Each morning I put a piece of tape on my back, just below
the collar of my shirt where it's not visible. Whenever I hunch over or
strain my head forward (and often at other times when I shift position,
stand up or sit down or move my head to look at something) I feel it,
very lightly. That's my cue for a two-second check and correction of my
posture and my breathing. So far it's working like a charm, though
whether I'll be able to eventually wean myself off the tape remains to
be seen.
And, having written recently about the power of both
imagination and intentionality, I've added a step to my hourly routine
to exercise these capacities. With a bit of reshuffling, the four
minute self-improvement program now looks like this:
- Attention: (1 minute)
- pay attention and open yourself and all your senses to where you are and
what's going on around you;
- self-assess your physical comfort, intellectual engagement, and emotional happiness; make sure your
current work/play environment is healthy; drink a glass of water, and get whatever other nourishment you assess you need;
- connect: make sure you're paying appropriate
attention to the people and animals in your presence.
- Resilience: (2 minutes)
- upper body stretches: do cat stretches and neck/shoulder exercises;
- lower body stretches: do hamstring, abdominal and balance exercises;
- let go of stress:
slow yourself down, draw yourself away for a moment from whatever you
were doing, and do whatever relaxes you, to relieve both ambient stress
and any recent 'surprise' stresses that are still lingering.
- Intentionality & Imagination: (1 minute)
- set your intention:
think about what you want to achieve in the next hour (exception: when
you first awake, think about what you want to achieve more than
anything else in the current day; just before you go to sleep, think about what you want to achieve more than anything else in your lifetime, and what might be the next simple step to achieving it);
- imagine its realization:
imagine the end result, and the joy and accomplishment it will bring to
you and others (and don't think or worry about the process of getting
there).
It was only after I'd been doing this three-step
program for a day or two that I realized it's a compressed version of
the 'presencing' process illustrated in the graphic above: Attention is about sensing, Resilience is about letting go, and Intentionality & Imagination are about realizing, envisioning and letting come.
It's
early, but so far it seems to be working. I don't worry about skipping
the process in hours when I'm in the middle of something, so in 18
waking hours per day I probably do this routine 8-10 times.
I
know some people have commented that this seems onerous, too
self-demanding, and say I need to give myself a break and stop
pressuring myself to 'improve'. But I don't find this process onerous
at all. It's only a half-hour total commitment per day, and because
it's only four minutes at a stretch it goes quickly. And the exercises,
far from adding to the list of the day's 'work' activities, actually
seem to save me time by making the other 56 minutes of the hour more
productive.
This seems to fit well, also, with my greatly streamlined Getting Things Done
process and list, now that I've removed all the 'urgent unimportant'
tasks from the list. In fact, because the list is so short and
everything on it is important to me, I need only glance at it once
(first thing each morning) to remind myself of appointments and
priorities for the day, and it's committed to memory and guides my
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