 These
days I'm on the TTC, the Toronto subway system, fairly often. In
accordance with my resolution to practice paying attention, I often
eavesdrop on conversations in the subway, which, since patrons go to
such pains to act as if they're the only people in the subway car (even
when they're pressed up against a dozen other passengers at rush hour),
are often surprisingly candid. Here are some of the more memorable excerpts of conversations
I have overheard, with the imponderable, banal and cryptic content
edited out. For some reason, which I will leave up to others to
speculate on, women seem to converse more on the subway than men, and
their conversations are generally more interesting.
A woman, probably late twenties, talking to an older woman: "God, I'm glad I'm not a man. It's waaay too complicated."
Two very well-dressed women, probably early thirties, laughing: "He's OK, but serious self-esteem issues. (Pause, almost whispering) He doesn't show well."
Man, probably in his thirties, talking to an obviously unhappy, considerably older man:
"I think [Canadian conservative Prime Minister] Harper is an asshole,
and I swore I'd never vote Conservative, but of the three party leaders
he's the only one I know well enough to know exactly how little he can
be trusted."
Two teenage girls with shopping bags from trendy stores:
"Her Dad is, like, Psycho Dad, he doesn't let her do anything. She's
like a complete prisoner in her house. One day she's just going to
blow."
Two guys in suits, probably fathers in their late thirties:
"It seems as if young girls are supposed to dress to show off everything but
still act like angels, while young guys act like studs but dress like monks
-- layers of clothes that reveal nothing. What's that about?"
Two older women, clucking: "She bought herself flowers
afterwards. How pathetic is that?" Reply, after long pause: "I buy
myself clothes. They last longer."
Young lovers; she's drinking milk from a carton and has her
other arm around his waist, and he's avoiding her attempt to kiss him: She (laughing): "Why won't you kiss me?" He (very low voice): "I don't want to show off. It'll make everyone else crazy."
Two women, probably thirty-something, conversing quietly in French (my translation): "How come all the guys (gars, people?) who take the subway are ugly?" Reply: "The good-looking ones are still (
toujours, always?) in bed."
Two guys, probably fortyish, short sleeves and ties: "He
earns twice what I do, but I wouldn't trade places with him for
anything. Not just the hours. Your self-respect has to be worth
something."
Two young black women: "I love you 'KD' but I don't
know why you do that. You and Trish are always saying these (nasty?)
things about each other, behind each other's back. That's just messed
up. And I'm caught in the middle."
Man, thirty-something, to younger woman, perhaps a date: "I became a vegetarian last year. Now I only eat chicken... and sometimes fish and chips."
Two young women, with Goth clothing, piercings and tattoos: "Well, yeah, he's promiscuous, but he doesn't start it. Girls are always coming on to him. You can't really blame him."
Man, indeterminate age, to similar-looking man (brother?):
"She's so demanding. I don't want to be needed that much. It's great to be appreciated, but
I've already got a full-time job -- I don't want another one when I go home."
Woman, probably twenties, watching a young guy leaving the subway car, shaking her head, to another woman of about the same age: "Guys shouldn't be allowed to dress themselves." "Except gay guys." "Even some of them."
Woman, probably early forties, to younger very slim woman who has been raving about meditation: "I don't want to know my inner self that well. I'm afraid of what I might discover." . . . . . After
one of my subway trips I'm waiting in a second floor boardroom of an
office tower for the rest of the invitees to show up. I'm looking out
the window. There's a daycare centre with a big picture window on the
main floor of the building directly opposite, and I'm watching the
little kids playing. One little boy is crawling around pushing an
enormous red plastic dump truck full of yellow plastic 'bricks'. The
truck is half as big as he is. Suddenly, a little girl holding a
doll, who has been watching, seats the doll in a high chair at a nearby
table, wrenches the truck away from the boy, dumps out the yellow
plastic 'bricks', and walks away. The boy sits for a moment,
staring at the yellow 'bricks'. Then, unperturbed, he retrieves the
doll, lies her on her back, and uses her arms like cranes to lift the
yellow 'bricks' one by one onto her stomach. When they're all 'aboard',
he raises the doll's arms and legs up to hold the 'bricks' from falling
off, and 'drives' the doll, with her full payload, along the padded
floor to her unloading destination. |
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