
12
THINGS YOU CAN DO TO MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE
It's
been awhile since I updated my article on "What You Can Do (to
Save the World)". The revisions depicted in the chart above reflect my
recent disenchantment with idealism (which too often makes us
inconsolable, inflexible, inattentive and intolerant), my realization
that the world can't be saved, only made better than what it is, and my
recently-acquired preference for collective action over personal
self-change. On this final point, I'm beginning to believe that we
cannot
be, or become, what we are not, but that, particularly if we organize
with others, we can bring about significant change through collective,
effective, considered and focused action, even without changing
anyone's mind, values or beliefs. So here's a brief summary of the 12
things you can do to make a difference, to make the world a better
place:
Knowing
and Learning:
- Understand What's
Happening: Before you can
engage
others and act purposefully and effectively you need to understand how
the world really works (not what they tell you in school or in the
media about how it works). The world is complex, and understanding and
embracing complexity is a challenge to our culture's predilection for
oversimplification and dichotomy.
- Imagine What's Possible:
Next, you need to be
able to imagine a better world, one that is not addicted to growth and
consumption. If you can't imagine it, you will never be able to decide
how to achieve it.
- Be Pragmatic and
Realistic:
There are many things
you can do, and many wonderful-sounding but unenforced, unenforceable
and/or ineffective regulations and actions, so you need to learn what
actions actually work. This takes a lot of time and energy, and to do
it you need to stop doing some other things you are doing that are
distracting you from learning these important truths.
- Know Yourself:
Then, to assess what
you can do about all this, you need to know yourself, which means
giving yourself the time and space to discover who you really are, what
your true gifts, passions and purpose are, and therefore what you're
meant to do (see graphic above).
- Build Personal Capacity:
And finally, once
you've learned all this, you need to discover and acquire the
additional capacities you need to be effective at bringing about change
in the world. This doesn't entail changing yourself to be what you're
not, but just learning some new skills and abilities that will equip
you to accomplish more with less effort.
Most of us never have the opportunity to do any of this, so we end up
doing ill-informed, half-hearted, non-time-consuming, and largely
ineffective things. We complain, we sign a few petitions, we feel
guilty, but none of that gets us anywhere. We say we're doing our best
given the other commitments on our time, resources and energies, but
are we? Until we have done these five knowing and learning steps, we
can't possibly know.
Teaching
and Sharing:
- Converse and Tell Stories:
Once we have learned
these things, we can start to engage others. Conversation, discussion,
talking, explaining, showing -- these aren't 'doing' actions, but they
are essential. Until we engage others in meaningful dialogue, our
efforts are atomized, fragmented, isolated. The purpose of conversation
is not to persuade, but to inform. And people will only listen to you
if you are knowledgable, articulate, reasonable, fearless (not afraid
to bring up prickly, complex, messy, controversial subjects in any
social environment), authentic, enthusiastic (energy and passion are
contagious and without them we have limited credibility) and
persistent. As I have explained elsewhere (and others have explained
better than I can), stories are usually the most effective way to
convey information, ideas, and perspectives. They are subversive in
their power.
- Engage Obstructionists:
There is little point
arguing with people who are not yet ready to listen to you (as Daniel
Quinn has explained). If you are talking with politicians or business
people, you will often find that the best way to engage them is to show
you care, but not get carried away by your emotions. In my experience,
these people appreciate and relate to discussions that present them
with new, objective information, framed in the context of
sustainability (in the broader sense of ability to continue to exist
without the need for constant effort to prop it up) and risk (what
could go wrong). Proffering positive ideas to make our whole society
more sustainable and to assess and address risks, will general garner
attention and careful consideration by most people in the political and
business arena, because this approach appeals to their self-interest
and areas of competency, responsibility and authority. Trying to appeal
to their moral sense is, in most cases, an unnecessarily more difficult
tack.
Doing:
- Be an Activist or Pioneer:
Once the knowing and
talking is done, it's time for action. I recently wrote
about what activism entails and why it's important. Activism is
intentional action designed to bring about political, social, economic,
health care or educational reform. It generally entails confronting
people (usually people with power) with information, ideas, proposals,
challenges and/or demands. It is often a tactic when conversation and
information-sharing (step 7 above) has proved fruitless. It is an
expression of political power in the face of power, and hence almost
always requires organization and force of numbers, though in some cases
an individual or small group confrontation can actually galvanize
others and produce the organization and numbers needed to demonstrate
that the confrontation has popular support. Such individual or small
group activism is a form of pioneering -- showing people the way by
experimentation and example.
- Create Responsible,
Sustainable Enterprises: Most
of us spend a
large part of our waking hours working, and one of the most effective
ways we can bring about change is in the decision about what work we
choose to do. Years of experience and work have convinced me that
rather than trying to make existing organizations more responsible or
sustainable, it is more effective to create new 'natural' enterprises
that allow us to do the work we are meant to do, and at the same time
to stop supporting, with our labour and our tax dollars, unsustainable
organizations and organizational practices.
- Be a Model:
Ghandi famously said
that we should be the change we want to see in the world, to model that
behaviour. Good models for a better world are sufficient (they live
comfortably but not extravagantly or wastefully), loving, tolerant,
attentive (they listen more than they talk), responsible (no
complaining, just doing), and sustainable. These models also recognize
that having more than one child in this dreadfully overcrowded world is
an irresponsible, unsustainable act.
- Create a Model Community:
Likewise, we need to
create collaborative communities that are models for others,
alternatives to the wasteful, ineffective, alienating, isolating
'neighbourhoods' of wary strangers living near each other solely
because of a mutual proximity to their place of work. The 'development'
industry treats our communities' land as an asset that has value only
when it is razed, overbuilt and then liquidated. We must find better
models of community, where people choose to live and work together and
exercise collective stewardship of their land on behalf of all life on
it and the future generations that will live there.
- Be Good to Yourself:
Finally, it is
essentially that we be good to ourselves and those we love. We cannot
be effective if we allow ourselves to be consumed by guilt, or despair,
or grief, or neglect our health and well-being. An essential element of
making the world a better place is celebrating our achievements, our
efforts, and the astonishing joy of life itself. We have to pace
ourselves and look after ourselves, and each other, if we hope to
continue to make a difference.
So, you say, all well and good. But how do we actually get started
on these 12 steps? We're sold -- the current way we live is not
sustainable, and has horrific consequences for many people and other
creatures suffering because of it. But we're still not doing
anything, or, at least, not enough. There are all kinds of reasons for
this: We have no time. We have obligations to family that take
priority. We're already exhausted by the end of the work-day, and we
have to give ourselves some
time to relax and recover. We may know what to
do, in general terms, but we really have no idea how
to do it. We elected our government to do these things -- it's their
job, or at least it's their job to show leadership and tell us
specifically what we should do. Or we're waiting for a better
government, and focused on getting rid of this ineffective one.
Excuses, excuses. I'm not saying they aren't good
excuses. But how do we get past them? How do we just start?
As a terrible procrastinator myself, I have been giving this a lot of
thought, and I've discovered that I can get some real answers to this
'how do we start' question by asking some underlying, positive,
affirmational, excuse-challenging questions. I credit Patti Digh and
David Robinson, who are currently offering a course
on getting past the 'blocks' in our lives,
for some of the impetus behind these questions.
Here are the four questions I asked myself:
1. Learning Action Challenge:
What
one
additional capacity or skill,
more than any other, do you
think you need to acquire or learn, to equip yourself to make the world
a better place, and why?
What is the single best way for you
to acquire or learn (or
motivate yourself to learn) that additional capacity or skill?
What's
really holding you back from doing so? What can you do to get past
this block?
2. Personal Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do you think you
can take, personally, to make
the world a better place, and why?
What's really holding you back? What can you do to get past this block?
3. Community Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do you think you can take, in your
community, to make the
world a better place, and why?
What's really holding you back? What can you do to get past this block?
4. Workplace Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do you think you can take, in your job or
enterprise, to make the
world a better place, and why?
What's really holding you back? What can you do to get past this block?
Here are my answers. I am embarrased by them, frightened by them,
ashamed of them, annoyed by them. But they are having an effect: I am
edging closer to the edge of the ledge of inaction on which I sit, no
longer satisfied pontificating about what I or others should
do. Yikes. This is pretty raw, almost too honest to admit:
| 1. Learning Action Challenge:
What
one
additional capacity or skill,
more than any other, do I
think I need to acquire or learn, to equip myself to make the world
a better place, and why?
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Love
(compassion, empathy, genuine caring) for all-life-on-Earth, to the
point I can no longer bear the thought of the massive suffering that
goes on, every day, needlessly, unchallenged, so that I have to do
something. |
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What
is the single
best way for me to acquire
or learn (or
motivate myself to learn) that additional capacity or skill?
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Witness
the suffering that goes on in
the world, in struggling nations, in hospitals and old age homes, in
factory farms, in barbaric workplaces, in the homes of abused children
and spouses, and in a thousand other places where, to conserve my
sanity, I have largely choosen not to go. |
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What's
really holding me back?
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I'm
afraid to do this, not sure I
have the heart or stamina to deal with it. |
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What
can I do to get past this block?
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I just have to go, do it,
face it, witness it, confront that unspeakable horror and grief. And of
course write about it. Into the buzzsaw. |
2. Personal Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do I think I
can take, personally, to make
the world a better place, and why?
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Help the world imagine a
better way to live, by
writing about the world after the collapse of civilization late in this
century. |
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What's
really holding me back?
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Fear of failure.
I've started writing this book so many times, and it's just not
anywhere good enough. |
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What
can I do to get past this block?
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Write the damn book.
Just start. Decide on something I'm not going to do, and spend that
time, every day, writing, one page at a time. |
3. Community Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do I think I can take, in my
community, to make the
world a better place, and why?
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Organize.
Anything I can do as an individual is multiplied when we can do it
collaboratively, drawing on our numbers, diverse skills and
self-support. |
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What's
really holding me back?
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I haven't really found my
community yet, a community that is
informed and committed to take radical actions. |
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What
can I do to get past this block?
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I have to get out and meet more
people and invite them to
commit to joining me in real
community. If I remain selfish, I'm no model for anything. |
4. Workplace Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do I think I can take, in my job or
enterprise, to make the
world a better place, and why?
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Quit, and create my own
community-based cooperative,
a small, autonomous, sustainable, responsible, connected, resilient,
egalitarian enterprise that fills a real unmet need I care
about. |
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What's
really holding me back?
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I'm
too lazy to make the jump,
and also somewhat committed to my current employer, who took a big
chance with me. |
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What
can I do to get past this block?
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I'm seriously thinking about what
that enterprise will
be, and about
transitional arrangements at my workplace. So much for just retiring
and writing. |
Whew. Deep breath. This is heavy stuff. I'm looking myself right in the
face
and recognizing that my excuses for inaction are pretty feeble. Do I
really want to make the world a better place? Unquestionably. Is there
any logical reason I can't and shouldn't take the 'What can I do to get
past
this block' steps, right now? Uh, no. OK, then. Put it in your
calendar, Dave. Make it happen. What's really scary is that I can see,
for each of these questions, the next thing
I can do that would make a difference to the world, and what's holding
me back from doing each of those
things, and the equally startling things I could and should do to get
past those
blocks. And so on.
OK, now it's your turn, dear reader. Time to face what's really holding
you back, and what you can do about these blocks.
Here's a blank form for you to fill in:
| 1. Learning Action Challenge:
What
one
additional capacity or skill,
more than any other, do you
think you need to acquire or learn, to equip yourself to make the world
a better place, and why?
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What
is the single
best way for you to acquire
or learn (or
motivate yourself to learn) that additional capacity or skill?
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What's
really holding you back?
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What
can you do to get past this block?
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2. Personal Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do you think you
can take, personally, to make
the world a better place, and why?
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What's
really holding you back?
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What
can you do to get past this block?
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3. Community Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do you think you can take, in your
community, to make the
world a better place, and why?
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What's
really holding you back?
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What
can you do to get past this block?
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4. Workplace Action Challenge:
What
one additional
action, more than any other, do you think you can take, in your job or
enterprise, to make the
world a better place, and why?
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What's
really holding you back?
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What
can you do to get past this block?
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Tell me how this works for you. Go. Just start.
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