Leaving the rarefied atmosphere of Rivendell is a bit like a crash landing after a visit to a distant world.
I was privileged to spend three days this week in retreat with thirty
extraordinary people from across North America -- thirty people with
the knowledge, capacities, passion and intention to facilitate
meaningful conversations on subjects important to the participants and
to the world, subjects that are often difficult, complex, and
intractable.
The program is called The Art of Hosting, and it presents a full set of
facilitation methods and techniques -- Open Space, world cafe,
appreciative inquiry, conversation circle, consensus building and
others -- plus discussions on when each is appropriate, and the
opportunity to practice each with one's peers.
The practitioners in this retreat were quite advanced. For most of
them, facilitation is how they make their living, and these three days
were their opportunity to compare notes and hone their skills.
My initial training was earlier this year in Australia with Viv
McWaters and Brian Bainbridge, and since then I've become aware that
this network of practitioners is global, powerfully connected, and
driven to be of use, to make a difference, to make the world a better
place. These people are not in any sense like the old style of
facilitation consultants, who took instruction from senior executives
with a predetermined agenda and pushed participants to deliver on it.
Even worse, these old-style arrogant consultants sometimes introduced
their own 'expert' point of view into the discussion (usually to the
detriment of all).
By contrast, practitioners of this new set of facilitation or 'hosting' techniques aspire to nothing more or less than to enable more effective conversations leading to peer-consensual decisions and self-selected follow-up actions.
If the participants do not have the complete freedom to decide and to
do what they in their collective wisdom know is right, then the
responsible facilitator will simply refuse the assignment up front as a
fraud.
It is hard to overstate how radical this is. It is a reassertion of
democratic principles, personal responsibility, true empowerment and
the wisdom of crowds. It is a rebuff to the infallibility and 'greater
wisdom' of executives, managers, consultants and 'experts'.
Practitioners of these techniques can be catalysts for important and
truly revolutionary change, and in large calcified organizations,
public and private, it may well be the only way to bring about significant change at all.
It is a recognition that the vast majority of actual work that gets
done in organizations, the vast majority of value actually created, is
the result of bottom-up decisions, workarounds and changes (often
hidden from management for fear of retribution for violating official
policies) made by the thousands of individual workers on the front
lines. Those of us who have worked with large organizations recognize
that they are substantially incapable of innovation, and that they
drive their mavericks, bright thinkers, and imaginative people out,
while absurdly over-rewarding (and over-punishing when things go badly)
their senior executives. The potential 'facilitated re-democratization'
of previously hierarchical organizations could reverse this brain drain
and reverse their creative stagnation, to staggering effect.
I think the people who are doing this groundbreaking work realize the
power it has, and that's why they have embraced it with such passion
and have been relentless in urging their customers and potential
customers to use these techniques to set their employees (and in a way their customers as well) free, free to do their best work.
As our world enters a period of unprecedented challenges and
uncertainties, the success of these people to spread this new way of
learning, decision-making and acting could well be pivotal to our
economy's and our civilization's ability to cope, improvise and perhaps
even survive.
As we went into the third and final day of the retreat, I began trying
to figure out what it is that makes these thirty people, and those
increasing numbers like them around the world, so extraordinary, to the
point that I actually ached
leaving them. The intellectual and emotional high I received in their
company has been followed by the typical withdrawal symptoms of
quitting a euphoric drug cold turkey. Since I left a few hours ago I
find most 'outside' people annoying, unbearable. For three days we were
the type of intentional community that idealists only dream of. Now
bland, desperate reality with its horrific imaginative poverty and
ignorance have reemerged as the terrible reality of most of this world.
The world needs these revolutionary facilitators, these artful hosts,
and thousands, millions more like them, self-organizing, connecting,
smashing learned helplessness, corpocracy, hierarchy, bureaucracy, and
inertia.
While this list is probably incomplete, here are the qualities and capacities I recognized in these amazing people:
a thirst for truth, and an insistence on speaking the truth and being honest to a fault
extraordinary perceptiveness, attentiveness, and presence
intellectual and emotional sensitivity
an almost erotic level of passion and energy
total dedication to their chosen practices, pursued as lifelong practices, through which they seek only to get better (i.e. no expectation of mastery)
great instincts
wonderful improvisational skills
a love of aesthetics, and not inconsiderable artistic and
creative talent (my sketchbook yesterday was my struggle to keep up, as
they all seem to be able to draw brilliantly)
a high level of self-confidence, but never arrogance (in fact, humility)
a desire to be of use and service to others, and the
courage to do that anytime, anywhere (though when I asked them they
said it was the only thing they could conceive of doing that would have
meaning for them, so it wasn't courageous at all)
exceptional communication skills -- oral, written, and non-verbal
delightful imaginations
great trust and respect for each other and for others who are, like them, dedicated to unselfish pursuits
an aversion to power, and the use of power, and aversion to hierarchy and the cult of leadership
great intelligence, knowledge and curiosity
a subtle and gentle sense of humour, sometimes self-deprecating, never cruel or demeaning of others
Where did these people come from? Most of them are drop-outs from jobs
in which they were absurdly under-employed. Most of them are
substantially self-educated
-- they are extremely well-read and have exceptional vocabularies
despite not having much more formal education than the average North
American. They come from caring, informed parents. Two thirds of them
are women. One third of them are LGBT. They skew towards boomer age but
there is a healthy range of ages, and their children seem destined to
follow in their footprints. They love language. Most of them work in
the public sector, as social entrepreneurs. They have amazing networks
that became much more amazing this week.
I expect my euphoria from this week will wear off, but I am determined
to find a way to sustain the incredible sense of peace, joy, openness,
connection and presence I found and felt this week.
Those of you from Rivendell who are reading this, thank you, my amazing
new friends, artful hosts all, for the privilege of your company. You
have filled my heart with love and joy and hope. The conversation
started before it began, and it will continue long after it ends.
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