The following is a list of things I have come to know over the years. Many of them have become the tenets I adhere to:
I KNOW that I don’t know everything. The more I study and learn, the more I realize I have more to study and learn. We never cease from learning. If we think we know everything, we can’t see past the nose on the end of our face; we lack vision; we lack maturity.
I KNOW that what I put forth in regards to relationships, I’ll receive the same in return. Human behavior lives by the simple law of cause and effect.
I KNOW that when I make the attempt to be aware of the people around me, the more able I am to help them if they need it.
I KNOW that I am happier and healthier when I get plenty of sleep and consistent exercise.
I KNOW that other people don’t know my expectations of them. So I’ve learned not to expect things I’ve not made them aware of.
I KNOW to not feel entitled to things. Feeling entitled creates a false impression that I am better than someone else. Feeling entitled draws my focus back onto myself; I’m more prone to be disrespectful, condescending, controlling, manipulative, and self-righteous.
I KNOW that rules, laws, and commandments are relative to the situation and the time. Their importance and/or observance changes like the landscape of the beach.
I KNOW that change is inevitable. We move forward down the freeway of life; we modify ourselves based on what life deals us. Moving in reverse causes accidents. Trying to recreate the "golden" past pushes current problems under the rug.
I KNOW that finishing the race is more important than giving up because you didn’t win or perform to your standards or expectations. Understanding comes through the experience. Perseverance and determination are learned in conquering your obstacles.
I KNOW that I can only control the things I have control over. I cannot worry about things I don’t control. You cannot stop the rushing wind.
I KNOW that communication is a key to success in any situation.
I KNOW not to blame someone else for my mistakes. Responsibility is taking ownership in what we say and do. We are the caretakers of the responsibilities we've accepted. The ability to become a better person comes from owning up to mistakes and correcting them.
I KNOW not to talk ill of or to spread rumors about someone else. Discrediting someone else for your own gain and pleasure shows a lack of maturity and self-worth.
I KNOW not to tease. When people say seemingly rude comments, and then tell you they are just teasing, they aren’t. They had intentions for saying or doing what they did. It’s best to never tease those who you do not have a close relationship with, who do not know and appreciate your humor.
