Friends and the Decline of Western Civilization

I just heard the following commercial on ABC (one of many similar commercials on TV nowadays):
Friends ... the emotional journey ... saying good-bye ... the Barbara Walters interview.
It's not everyday that a show is spoken about with such earnestness by a rival network.
I don't know about you, but I, for one, really don't get the whole Friends phenomenon.
By that, I don't mean that I'm simply ignorant or indifferent about the show. I have seen it.
I mean that, from my perspective, Friends is perhaps the most vapid show in the history of television. It is positively empty of any redeeming values. And so I wonder what fans see in it.
The actors on the show are attractive (but not necessarily as attractive as, e.g., the actors on Aaron Spelling's shows). They're nice to look at. And their interactions are mildly pleasant. But from what I have witnessed, there's no real humor in the dialogue or in the plots. The writing is nowhere near the quality of Frasier or Seinfeld, let alone more dopey comedies like Three's Company. I watch this show, and I see nothing going on, except pretty, not-terribly-smart people enjoying themselves (without any self-consciousness, humanity, or genuine feeling).
And it goes beyond that. It's not just that the characters are dumb. They celebrate their dumbness. It's not just that they're shallow. They celebrate their shallowness. Nothing thought-provoking (whether it be something serious or humorous) ever happens to any of the characters, except for the general trend that nothing thought-provoking happens to them (and that doesn't provoke any thought among the characters). Considering the popularity of reality TV, what's amazing about Friends is that it doesn't allow reality to intrude at any point.
Thus when I hear others speak fondly of Friends, when I see, e.g., people at my gym transfixed by the bank of televisions showing reruns, I am dismayed. And when they chuckle (there's rarely any strong laughter of the sort associated with top comedies - another strange aspect of the show), I feel like an anthropologist studying a completely alien culture without knowing the language of the natives. And when people identify with the characters, I honestly wonder how empty those people must be. And when I hear how fanatically popular the show is, I tremble at the future of this country.
In all seriousness, I think the Friends phenomenon is emblematic of the decline of America (and Western and world civilization, to the extent that the show is popular overseas). Friends cultivates the view (and the habit?) that it's OK not to be troubled by anything, and that one can pass through life in one's immediate circle of peers, sheltered from anything alien, absurd, ugly, or malicious (the source of a great deal of good humor). But it's by encountering and coping with the alien, absurd, ugly and malicious (sometimes through laughter) that problems are grasped, issues resolved, and progress made. A Friends world is a world immune from such encounters. It's immune from genuine laughter. It's a world without progress.
Postscript: Is this simply a generational gap? I'm 33 years old. I don't think it's an age issue.
A snobby, elitist opinion? Perhaps. But I'm somone who found value in watching even such shows as Gilligan's Island, The Love Boat, Melrose Place, and other exquisite trash.
The problem with Friends is that it's not even exquisite trash. "Exquisite trash" like Melrose Place presents itself as such. It's self-conscious trash. And it creates a world that doesn't pretend to be anything other than fake. Friends is trash that doesn't realize it. It presents itself as true to life, when it is as fake as Melrose Place.
No, sorry, I see no redeeming value in it whatsoever, and yet people speak about it as if it's the greatest television show of the last decade. There's no denying that it's one of the most popular shows of recent times. But that's what troubles me.
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