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Friday, May 27, 2005
 

 As I have mourned my mother this year, I have also been questioning what comes next. My daughters are grown; my parents are dead. For the first time since my oldest was born in 1973, I don't have caregiving responsibilities.

For more than thirty years, family has been my first priority; my career played second fiddle. Should I be a librarian or a social worker? Public librarians are also social workers; people feel much more comfortable seeking information and advice from friendly, helpful people who don't pin a diagnostic label on them. I have been much more confident I have genuinely helped my library patrons than my therapy clients.

In ten days I begin a new job as a young adult librarian in a small public library on Long Island.I am looking forward to spending my working life hanging out with teens. I have never entirely outgrown adolescence. My mom was a high school teacher; she credited her students for much of her youthful vitality, enthusiasm, openness to new ideas.

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