Time Travel
Two weeks ago, I went back east for my Mom's birthday and my college reunion. I flew through the sky and landed in my past.
One
of my very favorite high school friends, Chris, found this blog
recently. It was a virtual reunion, after 20 some years. One evening
during my visit he met me at my sister's house. We all talked til the
stars blazed into midnight. It was the talk of real friends... not
just reminiscence, but also new conversations to build the connection
into the future.
I found another long lost dear one at the
college by the river's edge. Once we had made a life together, but
sorrow proved more than my young self could bear. I left our good life
behind. Twenty four years later, we strolled the beach, closing the
open-ended circle. We sat with our spouses under the trees, washed by
sweet music and wine. A new chapter began.
The best of friends
wined and dined me. They opened their home to Gary and Mom so we could
have a 3 day housesitting vacation in their waterfront home. I sat on
the pier, watching ospreys, swans and herons. I read The DaVinci Code
in one huge enthralled gulp. Water lapping at the shore hypnotized me
into napping daily.
During the days among my family members, we
rode the waves of loves and friendships and choices and creativity. We
honored Mom with heartfelt testiments to her accomplishments. The kids
brought huge smiles to her face and shining eyes. We sat in the back
yard, eating lasagna and watching a pool full of splashing children.
We were the adults, they were the kids, Mom alone was the grandmother.
The wheel of generations turned. My camera caught it all.
It
was so hard to leave all the kids. Nieces and nephews had filled my
days. The prospect of leaving them behind again was wrenching.
Leaving the coastal water was hard. But when I sat on my sunny
Colorado porch the next morning, I knew I was home.
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