Saturday, May 21, 2005

Sexual fantasy's are perhaps something that is already common to most everybody who has sexual organs, and perhaps those who do not as well. We all know that they can be fun to think about entertaining to entertain the possibility of ever going through with them. But is it healthy to act upon these feelings? Can one even go further to ask whether or not they stay as fantasy's after they have been acted out at least one time in some manner? I should think that only if you are in a relationship (depending upon your fantasy) should you ever even consider such an idea. Think of the harm, say a rape fantasy would do in the mind of someone not dating who could not control him/herself? Not only would such an instance be devastating to the victim but also potentially to the aggressor in the situation as well (emotional scars). Disregarding a nonexistent relationship for a moment, what are the implications of wishing to act out a sexual fantasy when your partner does not? Can one possibly justify continuing with it then? Perhaps convince your partner or even take on an additional one to accomplish such a task? With no doubt the effects where would be as far reaching as those of the non-relationship sexual fantasy taker. 4:46:19 PM     comment []