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Tuesday, November 22, 2005

IN DEFENSE OF THE OATH

There can be a reliable professional code, although we have none now.

 

Nathan Pollack, MD

 

OATH

"I swear by Apollo Physician, by Asclepius, by Health, by Panacea and by all the gods and goddesses, making them my witnesses, that I will carry out, according to my ability and judgment, this oath and this inden­ture. To hold my teacher in this art equal to my own parents; to make him partner in my livelihood; when he is in need of money to share mine with him; to consider his family as my own brothers, and to teach them this art, if they want to learn it, without fee or indenture; to impart precept, oral instruction, and all other instruction to my own sons, the sons of my teacher, and to indentured pupils who have taken the physician's oath, but to nobody else. I will use treatment to help the sick according to my ability and judgment, but never with a view to injury and wrong­doing. Neither will I administer a poison to anybody when asked to do so, nor will I suggest such a course. Similarly I will not give to a woman a pessary to cause abortion. But I will keep pure and holy both my life and my art. I will not use the knife, not even, verily, on sufferers from stone, but I will give place to such as are are craftsmen therein. Into whatsoever houses I enter, I will enter to help the sick, and I will abstain from all intentional wrong-doing and harm, especially from abusing the bodies of man or woman, bond or free. And whatsoever I shall see or hear in the course of my profession, as well as outside my profession in my intercourse with men, if it be what should not be published abroad, I will never divulge, holding such things to be holy secrets. Now if I carry out this oath, and break it not, may I gain for ever reputation among all men for my life and for my art; but if I transgress it and forswear myself, may the opposite befall me. "

 

 

Trioi latroi

 

I.  The Procession of the Freshmen

 

Where are the living?

Where the life to which they've gone?

Under the city?

Beyond the traffic, beneath the grass?
No,                                              in vats
gregariously waiting  for  the coming fall.

Where are the deadly?  They are coming

in linen labcoats, stethoscopes aswinging,

to dissociate the living to learn to treat the dead.

 

II.  A Professional Recession

 

This is the beginning of the middle age of living.

I shall rediscover and resurrect my youth.

Knowledge has no meaning.

Data flip, and flee me.

I shall give up healing, abandon games of curing,  relinquish operations,

eschew pat diagnoses, cease to write prescriptions,

and learn to love the living.

Finally I worship the beauty of the living.

I can aid the dying.

I can ease disease.

I shall be the living.

Maybe  life  will  free  me  from  the deathly bondage—

the cold pedantic bondage, the outrage and the carnage

physicians come to die in.

 

III.  Ego Hippocrates

 

at Cos

a fertile island

I learned to worship Aphrodite

and Asklepios

in the wholest holy way

learning flux of humors

interflux of vapors

chiasmata of physis

the nature of the whole

 

I have known you

man by the wall

and I have known your family

All night we have watched you in fever

calmly trusting in the gods

in human love and wisdom

 

by day I have walked

through groves of olives

verdant vineyards

in dialogue with students

(sons of Asklepios)

in dialogue with teachers

(my fathers and their fathers)

 

Cos is a silkmoth

perpetually emerging from her chrysalic

medicine emerging into daylight

into light and life                          and life.

 

***

 

There seem a variety of interpreta­tions of the clinical trust or contract.  Why should it be so difficult for us to describe the basic tasks of the clini­cian?  Clinical work seems always and everywhere to have been essential to human beings as individuals and socie­ties , and despite its many forms has basically stayed the same.  But now and again we question and argue, with no idea what direction to go.

 

Some argue that the forms and func­tions of clinical work are not so clearly defined, that they are changing, that in fact they must be changed dras­tically to meet overwhelming unmet needs. It is so.  Forms and functions need greatly to change and grow.  But basic principles are unchanged (though our recognition of them is dim, and re­quires constant refreshing).

 

The unchanging basic principles are what tell us what it is to be a patient (which we are fairly willing to acknowl­edge) , what it is to be a clinician (which we are reluctant to scrutinize), and what the relationship between patient and clinician should be.  The clinician is a clinician only in rela­tion to the patient, but the patient is who he is without the clinician.  (He is the sufferer, the afflicted, the one who has need of care.)  Let us make our defi­nitions in the simplest and most effective way.  Given the person and needs of the patient, the tasks of the clinician and the nature of the relationship are essentially determined.

 

Ideally the patient is motivated by self-interest directed toward his own health.  But (as I have shown in "To Be a Patient") when any of us becomes a patient gradually or abruptly, he or she be­comes significantly irrational and de­pendent.  It is only if the process of clinical care goes well that the patient is enabled to judge and act better in her or his own behalf.

 

The clinician is who she or he is only in relation to the patient.  Perhaps that one could have an independent existence as an anthropologist or biologist or such, but then not as a clinician, merely interested in humans as one might be in bugs.  As an "objective" sci­entist she or he could not care essentially about this patient's welfare as a per­son—could not be "klinikos," the one who comes to the sufferer at the bedside.

 

The clinical researcher is also no "coldly objective scientist," can no more afford to sever himself apatheti-cally from the patient than he would from humanity itself.  He must possess in his reservoir somewhere care for all patients, and especially for the real ones he meets.

 

The student, perhaps yet afraid to take direct or total responsibility toward this patient, well might consider some future patient to be cared for by his yet-to-be-competent self.  He can share in his teacher's loyalty to the patient (and the teacher reciprocally can share in the student’s).

 

The teacher can show his own skill and loyalty to the student, and thereby reconfirm it in himself.  As he nurtures the student and other clinical staff they will be better able to care for the patient.  (Too often the "attending" phy­sician attends neither patient nor stu­dent nor other professional staff, is as an absentee landlord whose name is stamped on documents.)

 

That we daily complain of callous­ness from clinicians shows how sensitive we are as patients, how much we seek reassuring attention.  Clinicians often become sensitive to clinical callousness because they know how uneconomical a waste comes from distracting the patient with apparent lack of attention or con­cern.  Anyone who is a patient is easily overpowered, vulnerable to hurt from disease and persons; the last thing he needs is inattention or abuse from clinicians.

 

The patient needs an advocate in the clinician. It is not paternalism to care for someone who needs care any more than it is necessary for a parent to be pat­ronizing to her or his child.  Similar skills are required, similar awareness, in being clinician and in being parent.  To have more power than a relatively powerless other can be a great help if it is clear you are on his side.  To threaten, even inadvertently, to use it against him will likely engender terror, evasion and passive-aggressive resistance.

 

I have asserted that the universal solvent for all apparent medical ethical dilemmas is the enhancement of the au­tonomy of the patient (see "Medical Ethics--There are No Dilemmas”).  It is to be accomplished especially (but not only) by skillful treatment of whatever disables the patient, which must be based on accurate comprehensive assess­ment of the real situation of the patient.  One factor is universally dis­abling to each patient--the predicament itself of being a patient, no matter how temporary or mild the disease  may seem.

 

Sensitivity to the patient may depend on identification with the patient, but over-identification will only enhance the patient's dependence.  (Another fine distinction!  See "The Accomplished Clinician" for more detail.)

 

It is clear no code of procedures or policies can solve the multimyriad of clinical dilemmas. It is only by appre­hending basic principles we can have a way to discern what to do in any case, and these principles most easily can be formulated in terms of simple clinical relationships.

 

Doctor Pellegrino avers that "the great deficiency of the Hippocratic Oath is its lack of attention to the prin­ciple of autonomy." (1)  I can read the Oath with a measure of imagination, and in the context of the true Hippocratic corpus I can read enhancement of auto­nomy.  The value of the Oath today, even though it is a late and poorly related extraction of true Hippocratic writings, is in its serving to remind us there can be a code, that there need not be chaos or ethical anarchy in our professions.  

 

What we do properly cannot be defined by legal limits for which there are formal punishments, nor by market forces which assume what is valuable will be sought and bought.  What we properly do must be contained within basic principles of defined relationships and responsibilities which transcend the meager legal requirements to do no punishable harm, or the hypothetical economic proposition to do what the patient demands.  There are more reliable roots, and they do reside in the soul of the clinician.  Clinical behavior without altruism is dangerous and unreliable. (See Pellegrino and Thomasma, "Profession" (2).)

 

The fullness with which the Oath can be read implies deep feeling for the patient, the society, medical tradi­tions, and for the divine power which underlies nature and healing. (3)  It is fullness and deep feeling for basic prin­ciples we need in a code, to meet the potential emptiness, pain and despair any patient’s dilemma may invoke in us.

 

Consider some Hippocratic statements and some commentaries on the Hippocratic ethic and tradition:

 

1.  Primum non nocere

 

Medical teachers have used this phrase longer than I can remember, giving the impression it is directly Hippocratic.  (It is not, if for no other reason than it is Latin, a language in which Hippocrates never wrote.  English-speaking professors ought not parade their ignorance of tongues.)

 

2. As to diseases, make a habit of two things—to help, or at least to do no harm (wfelein h mh blaptein).

Epidemics I, XI x.i (4)

 

This seems the valid source, Epidemics being the valid Hippocratic work.  The "constitutions" (specifically historical ecologic descriptions) and the "cases" (unreconstructed concrete observations) convince us of the honesty of the work.  It Is the work of a clinician, not an abstractor, based on the realities of discrete human experience.

 

3. I will use treatment to help the sick according to my ability and judgement, but never with a view to injury and wrong-doing.

The Oath, Lines 16-18

 

This similar thought (even though the Oath was not Hippocrates' own writing) is central to any strength of the Oath.  It describes the clinician's basic rela­tionship to each patient.  There may be other more ancient similar locutions, which only enhances the validity of this basic principle.  It is important that the Oath specifies some other important relationships, whether or not we agree with their details:  relationship of phy­sician with teacher, student, offspring, parents, teacher's children, and the gods.  The crucial weakness is not the prohibition of procedures, but the encouragement of withholding information ("to impart precept... to nobody else" including the patient (5)).

 

4. The course I recommend is to pay attention to the whole of the medical art.  Indeed, all acts that are good or correct should be in all cases well or correctly performed; if they ought to be done quickly, they should be done quickly, if neatly, neatly, if painlessly, they should be managed with the minimum of pain; and all such acts ought to be performed excellently, in a manner better than that of one's own fellows.

Regimen in Acute Diseases, IV (6)

This is good because it describes action, goes beyond the mere avoidance of doing harm.  Crucial is the exhortation to attend "the whole of the medical art."

 

5.  “…In the true Hippocratic writing, Hippocrates does not swear, either by Apollo or anyone else. Least of all would he have sworn by Asklepios and the latter's suppositious daughters, Hygeia and Panacea.  Hippocrates' doc­trine of rational medicine was the opposite of the Asklepian rites of magic and dream-ritual, for which he had nothing but contempt... Similarly, all the strong provisions in the Oath against surgery, therapeutic abortion, and so forth are wholly in ac­cord with Pythagorean doctrine, and wholly at variance with the Hippocra­tic doctrine.

Dickinson W. Richards, M.D. "Hippocrates and History:  The Arrogance of Humanism" (7)

 

Even though I grant his criticisms, especially of swearing by minor gods, I can read into the Oath the following valid principles:  that the relationship with the patient intends good and avoids harm, that some drastic procedures are to be avoided, and that there is a spe­cial relationship also to teachers, stu­dents and connected others.

6.  Almighty God, Thou hast created the human body with infinite wisdom...Thou hast blest Thine earth, Thy rivers and Thy mountains with healing substances; they enable Thy creatures to alleviate their sufferings and to heal their illnesses.  Thou hast endowed man with the wisdom to relieve the sufferings of his brother, to recognize his disorders, to extract the healing substances, to discover their powers and to prepare and to apply them to suit every ill.  In Thine Eternal Providence, Thou hast chosen me to watch over the life and health of Thy creatures.  I am now about to apply myself to the duties of my profession.  Support me, Almighty God, in these great labours that they may benefit mankind, for without Thy help not even the least thing will succeed.

Inspire me with love for my Art and for Thy creatures.  Do not allow thirst for profit, ambition for renown and admiration, to interfere with my profession, for these are the enemies of truth and of love for mankind and they can lead astray in the great task of attending to the welfare of thy creatures.  Preserve the strength of my body and of my soul that they ever be ready cheerfully to help and support rich and poor, good and bad, enemy as well as friend. In the sufferer let me see only the human being.  Illumine my mind that it may recognize what presents itself and that it may comprehend what is absent or hidden...

Should those who are wiser than I wish to improve and instruct me, let my soul gratefully follow their guidance...

Imbue my soul with gentleness and calmness...

Let me be contented in everything except the great science of my profession.  Never allow the thought to arise in me that I have attained to sufficient knowledge, but vouchsafe to me the strength, the leisure, and the ambition ever to extend my knowledge.  For Art is great, but the mind of man is ever expanding.

Almighty God!  Thou has chosen me in Thy mercy to watch over the life and death of Thy creatures.  I now apply myself to my profession.  Support me in this great task so that it may benefit mankind, for without Thy help not even the least thing will succeed.

Maimonides (8)

Maimonides’ Prayer is more simple and to the point than the pseudo-Hippocratic Oath.  It acknowledges that the benefit is the patient’s, the power is already present in nature, and that therfore the goal cannot be for the welfare or recognition of the physician.  That leaves only altruistic motives as valid and only humility and assiduous study as tools of the trade. 

7.  I am asserting that what has come to be called the system of medical care may be better understood as a series of contracts or understandings rather than an array of facilities, trained professionals and instruments...My own view is that the two-party con­tract wherein two individuals negoti­ate an agreement about what is wrong and what is to be done, remains cen­tral in medical care and is essential to its regular effectiveness.

Richard M. McGraw, M.D. "Social and Medical Contracts Explicit and Implicit" (7)

 

Whatever elaborations and qualifications we impose on the clinical rela­tionship, it must irreducibly be equiva­lent to a two-party contract, because the patient must be one real person, and the clinical agent (whether a single person, a team, an institution, or what­ever) must relate to the patient as if another person.  The relationship must be personal.

 

8.  AMA:  Principles of Medical Ethics Preamble:  The medical profession has long subscribed to a body of ethical statements developed primarily for the benefit of the patient.  As a mem­ber of this profession, a physician must recognize responsibility not only to patients, but also to so­ciety, to other health professionals, and to self.  The following Principles adopted by the American Medical Asso­ciation are not laws, but standards of conduct which define the essen­tials of honorable behavior for the physician.

I.  A physician shall be dedicated to providing competent medical service with compassion and respect for human dignity.

II.  A physician shall deal honestly with patients and colleagues, and strive to expose those physicians deficient in character or competence, or who engage in fraud or deception.

III.  A physician shall respect the law and also recognize a responsibil­ity to seek changes in those require­ments which are contrary to the best interests of the patient.

IV.  A physician shall respect the rights of patients, of colleagues, and of other health professionals, and shall safeguard patient confidences within the constraints of the law.

V.  A physician shall continue to study, apply and advance scientific knowledge, make relevant information available to patients, colleagues and the public, obtain consultation, and use the talents of other health pro­fessionals when indicated.

VI.  A physician shall, in the provi­sion of appropriate patient care ex­cept in emergencies, be free to choose whom to serve, with whom to associate, and the environment in which to provide services.

VII.  A physician shall recognize a responsibility to participate in act­ivities contributing to an improved community.

 

The deficit here is that no rela­tionship is well defined.  Each statement is diversely qualified.   Certainly the impact is not patient-centered, nor is there any acknowledgement of the auton­omy of the patient.   There is no coher­ence.   This is of little value. (8)

 

9.  University of Colorado School of Medicine—Honor Code Pledge Card

The Honor Code of the University of Colorado School of Medicine states that students will behave in an ethi­cal and honest way at all times.  When any student or faculty member observes or knows about dishonorable conduct any kind, he should discuss it with the person who has behaved in an unethical way.  In addition, that behavior must be reported to the Honor Council or any of the five class representatives.  Failure to report dis­honest behavior is also a violation of the Honor Code.  Honor Code violations are investi­gated by the Honor Council, which consists of one class representative from the freshman, sophomore, and junior classes, and two from the senior class, as well as two ex-officio faculty members.  The Honor Council makes the recommendations for disciplinary action to the Executive Committee, which consists of the De­partment Chairmen and the Dean of the School of Medicine.

I, the undersigned, pledge that I will uphold and support the Honor Code of the University of Colorado School of Medicine as described above.

Date_______S i g n a t u r e___________________

 

No behavior or principle of behavior is specified. The "constitution" which underwrites this pledge denies the possibility or necessity to "designate or categorize conduct with reference to whether it is honorable or dishonor­able..." The unfairness to the student coerced to sign this pledge is evident, but also unnecessary, since we can take hold of a more comprehensive profes­sional code, whether we choose the ar­cane old one (traditional if not legiti­mate ) or generate a new one.  There is no advantage to anyone in imposing on stu­dents something less lofty than the most ambitious of codes; and if the most ambitious is appropriate to the novice, the teacher will easily adopt it for himself.

 

10.   "A  Physician's  Affirmation"  by Fredrick R. Abrams (9)

In order to be worthy of self-respect, I pledge to respect others who place their trust in me as a pro­fessional in the healing arts . Therefore:

I will practice my art and my science to benefit my patients.  I will disclose to my patients that which I know of their disease, and any hazards of the remedies I might suggest, that I may guide them to choose the course that suits them best.

I will offer care and comfort when they are ill, and when death becomes inevitable, I will ease their way as best I can in keeping with their ex­pressed plan.

I will recognize their right to self-determination, and if conflict should arise with my own ethical restraints, make them aware without judging wherein we differ, that they should consider seeking help elsewhere for their complaints.

I will intercede in their behalf within the scope of my authority if I perceive they are being treated with­out regard for their humanity.  I will hold in confidence that which is seen or heard in my role as a physician.

I will ever be a student to sharpen my skills and further my knowledge that I may be a better clinician. If I act in this way I may aspire to join men and women who, through the ages, have approached the loftiest ideals of the healing mission, for I will have earned the faith and trust which is the strongest tie in the bond between patient and physician.

 

My respected colleague has captured a great deal of what a professional code should include. He has made clear the responsible relationships to which he aspires:  relationship to patients re­specting their autonomy, hopes for self, and honor for those who share his pro­fession in the past, present and future.

 

11. This emphasis on the physician doing what he or she thinks will benefit the patient even in the face of the patient's contrary desires is classical Hippocratic professional ethics.  It is oblivious to broader ethical requirements, independent of consequences, including notions of patient's rights.

Robert Veatch "Professional Ethics: New Principles for Physicians?" The Hastings Center Report, June 1980

 

Patients are always dependent because of their afflictions.  To acknowledge this reality can lead, rather tha to paternalism, to effective enhancement of the patient's autonomy.  To help the sick to the best of one's ability and judgement is not an evil, nor does it require one to ignore the patient’s choices.  (Quite the opposite).  Veatch's A Theory of Medical Ethics (10) deserves a response.

 

I thought Robert Veatch would likely treat problems of medical ethics from a formal contractual viewpoint, that I would come away from reading his book with the vague impression he had never been a clinician or patient.  I know he is a teacher in relation to students, that he must have been a patient, and that he has had extensive clinical ex­periences, but I do not read his person­al experiences between his lines.  I do not sense his "subjective" experience as a person involved in the clinical rela­tionship.  I read only his "objective" experience as a critic.

 

I thank him for having carefully outlined an apparently rational basis for understanding three levels of moral contract which illuminate the clinical relationship:  (1) the basic social con­tract incumbent upon all members of so­ciety; (2) the general role-defining contract between society and the profes­sional group; and (3) the specific agreement between a clinician and a patient as equal contractors, which can take place under the aegis of the two broader contracts.

 

There is strength and value in this apparently rational approach, but it withholds itself from the realm in which real clinical encounters occur.  Its weakness is the same as the weakness of the law, whose admitted limitation is that it cannot surely identify the exact principles the ideal "reasonable" person would use in every case.  There is a reality and a measure of universality in clinical phenomena, and these do not clash with Dr. Veatch's work, but there must also be a way to integrate clinical reality with social theory.  We certainly agree there is an apprehensible standard far more reliable than the mere consen­sus of a self-interested professional group.

 

A crucial area to scrutinize is Dr. Veatch's detailed strong criticism of "the Hippocratic Principle," the major elements of which he identifies as con­sequentialism, paternalism and individ­ualism.  We always seem to agree the patchwork which has come to us as "Hip­pocrates" is imperfect, but it draws us to use it ever again as the soil in which we are rooted.  "…(T)he Hippo­cratic ethic is dead," Veatch says (p. 170), and I will gladly help him bury it as soon as I am convinced it is more dead than God used to be.  Like Veatch, I also have struggled with Hippocrates, but have found him an ally, not an adversary.

 

Veatch quotes Edelstein's transla­tion, "I will follow that system...which according to my ability and judgement I consider for the benefit of the sick." (11)  Jones says, "I will use treatment to help the sick according to my ability and judgement." (5)  The problem I have in digesting Veatch's criticism of the Hippocratic Principle comes partly from his having "divided to conquer."  He properly identifies the inherent focus on outcomes (and displays the variety of interpretations of "to help, or not to harm" versus "primurn non nocere") but does not integrate that focus on out­comes with the "paternalism" of the Hip­pocratic Principle.  He does not inte­grate paternalism with individualism.  The lack of integration I sense in Veatch's book is equivalent to an ignor­ing of clinical phenomena.  Robert Veatch is the rational analyst, taking apart the living experience, abstracting it too distantly.  Consequentialism, patern­alism and individualism are all implica­tions of the Hippocratic Principle, but they come as a package, the results of practical experience; they have some value as truisms when seen in context, in relation to each other.

 

The central phenomenon of the clini­cal relationship is dependence of the real individual patient on the real in­dividual clinician.  It is not his auton­omy which characterizes the patient, but exactly his lack of autonomy.  To empha­size the autonomy of the patient in med­ical ethics is utterly important because given the initial dependence of each patient the clinician too easily can perpetuate dependence and inhibit auton­omy, consciously or inadvertently.  I beg clinicians to use much of their energies to enhance autonomy.  Autonomy is the goal (coherent with health), but it is not the condition of the patient as the clinical relationship begins.  We do not often get the opportunity to treat per­sons through their health, but usually because of their disease.

 

Accepting Veatch's analysis of the Hippocratic Principle, that it consists of consequentialism, paternalism and individualism, I will show how taken together they are coherent, productive of good, and valuable as a basis for a code for the clinician (although not the basis of a code for patients or third parties).

 

Attending to consequences in each individual case for the sake of that real person is the essential orientation of the personal clinician.  (Other clinicians may have proper focuses else­where--in community health, research, et cetera--but they are acting somewhat differently.)  Consequentialism and individualism need not be problematic.  It is paternalism which is hard to swallow.  Why need clinicians seem paternalistic?  (It is the paternalism of the Hippocratic Principle which has caused concern for Edmund Pellegrino and other clinical ethicists, and seems anathema to Veatch.)

 

If the benefit to the individual patient is to be considered, Veatch asks why all benefits to the patient not be considered, not only physical and psy­chological.  But he says, "Physicians seem to be in no position to assess them since they have no particular expertise in economic, spiritual, aesthetic, intellectual, or other non-medical di­mensions of benefit to the patient." (p.148)  Shall we have a committee of consultants for each citizen in need?

 

Whether expert or not, physicians often are trusted to help in all these areas, and have developed some capacity to help.  Physicians also participate in formal legal responsibility beyond the physical and psychological.  Even if the clinician is not ideally expert, why should he not consider all benefits for each individual?  If we emphasize the consequentialist aspect of the Hippocra­tic Principle, then we must carefully consult each individual patient in de­tail about what his proper individual needs and desires may be.  Concern for the outcome is bound inextricably with individualization and necessitates communication with the individual who is involved.  Paternalism may be implied, but not lack of communication with the patient.

 

Veatch so narrowly considers "my ability and judgement" that he jumps to the conclusion the clinician will some­how manipulate the patient utterly with­out the patient's consent or participa­tion.  Such unilateral manipulation and exploitation of human persons has never been proper clinical behavior, nor will it ever be.

 

The statement of the Hippocratic Principle is clinician-centered because the clinician's behavior can be submit­ted to standards, can be programmed and controlled.  The patient's behavior can­not be standardized.  The patient is bound by no rules.

 

There can be no "contract between equals" here, because the parties are not equal.  The autonomy of the patient is not a given, but it certainly is the central goal of the entire clinical pro­cess.  There can be a series of under­standings, but they must continually be changing to suit the changing situation of the patient, the changing clinical relationship.  Whether the outcome of the clinical process goes well or ill, the status of the patient is continually changing, but not so the status of the clinician.  The clinician's role can be standardized and codified because his responsibility to the patient is constant.  The patient is obligated only loosely to one thing--concern for self.

 

Veatch comes to the formulation, "The physician should benefit the patient according to the most objective judgement available unless the patient autonomously chooses some other course, provided the physician's own conscience is not violated beyond limit." (p. 149)  This complex standard implies the great­est validity is in the "most objective judgement available," modified by sub­jective vetoes from the patient or the clinician.  In fact, proper clinical de­cisions are made in a dialogue between clinician and patient which involves each party subjectively and objectively, with a shared assumption that the bene­fit of the patient is the central goal.  Difficult situations may bring in other parties, but the proper nature of the process is not changed thereby, only confused often.  (This is the dangerous rationale which is used to support ir­rational programs like DRG's.)

 

What if the patient wants something not in his own or society's interest?  Some decision will be made, even if it is for inaction.  When the clinician makes a decision "according to my abil­ity and judgement" he takes responsibil­ity for his assessment, recommendations and action.  The clinician takes respon­sibility to the patient and to the com­munity, not from self-interest but from duty attached to his role, defined (imperfectly) by his code.  The clinician professes responsibility for the out­come, but it is the patient who must ultimately take the responsibility, for he directly suffers the consequences.

 

The difference between the actual and the ideal is great, but the clini­cian is closer to being able honestly to contract than is the patient.  Cultural changes may be bringing the patient-consumer closer to the ability to con­tract openly and honestly, but it must always be so that the clinical process will begin with a relatively anxious and incompetent patient and (I hope) a relatively compe­tent and calm clinician.  The ideal process imme­diately begins to enable the patient, to bring him closer to the autonomy Veatch posits hypothetically at the beginning.

 

Veatch proposes a three-level con­tract.  The first two levels might be achieved, never perfectly (the social contract and the contract of the profes­sional group).  The third, the concrete contract between clinician and patient, cannot be had as he wishes.  It is the result, not the beginning of the clini­cal relationship.

 

Perhaps there is a way to formulate the three-level contract Veatch seeks, but it will always be a lop-sided agree­ment.  The patient's part of the agree­ment is simple, something like, "I depend on you to help me become more autonomous (more able, more healthy), and I will honestly try to participate in my own behalf."  The burden on the patient is his responsibility for his own life in all its ramifications.  He is not intrinsically burdened within the clinical relationship.

 

The clinician is bound in the con­tract by something like this:  "I will follow that system...which according to my ability and judgement I consider for the benefit of the sick" because I am the one who takes responsibility until the patient can take more full care of himself; and I will relinquish power over him from the beginning and through­out our relationship according to his current ability to take responsibility for himself; and I will participate in an ongoing dialogue with him as to how well and able he feels; and I will always be ready to err on the side of promoting his autonomy, at the potential risk of his other goods, because the patient is a person with rights to choose, and I am neither omniscient nor omnipotent.

 

1.  Personal communication from Edmund Pellegrino, January 12 , 1982.

2.  Pellegrino and Thomasma, A Philosophical Basis of Medical Practice (New York:  Oxford University Press, 1981).

3.  A sentiment expressed by Leon K . Kass, M.D. in his lecture given November 12, 1980 at the University of Chicago,  "The Hippocratic Oath:  Thoughts on Medicine and Ethics."

4.  Hippocrates, translated by W. H Jones, Loeb Classical Library, Vol. 1, p. 165, Harvard/Heinemman, 1972.

5.  Op. cit., Vol. I, p. 299.

6.  Op. cit., Vol. II, p. 65.

7.  Bulger, Roger J., Hippocrates Revisited:  A Search for Meaning, Medcom, New York, 1973.

8.  Abraham Joshua Herschel, Maimonides, (translated by Joachim Neugroschel), London, Faber, 1982.

9.  Detailed criticisms may be found in Pellegrino and Thomasma, A Philosophical Basis of Medical Practice and in Veatch’s A Theory of Medical Ethics.

10.  Abrams, F.R., "Social Needs and the Physician’s Duties:  A Physician’s Affirmation,” People and Policy, 1979, 1; 18-21.

11.  Veatch, Robert M., A Theory of Medical Ethics, New York, Basic Books, 1981.

12.  Edelstein, Ludwig, Ancient Medicine,  Baltimore, Johns Hopkins, 1967.


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Monday, November 21, 2005

 

Buber’s I-Thou Relationship Applied to the Self:

the possibility of true love and true community within someone’s lifetime

 

A Personal Complaint

 

Mature and self-confident, hormonally stable long since––but, alas, I am none of these.

 

A few years ago I grumbled out a late night piece on relationship (or absence thereof) between a man and a woman[1].  With the haughty authority of the author I ended it abruptly by throwing both characters out of the story, condemning them each as pigs and snakes, too hopelessly like all my friends and relatives.

 

Shortly thereafter I found myself against my will writing a story of a man and a woman who doubt there can be true love, at least for themselves each[2].  I was in utter dumb agony the several days I dutifully wrote the story, doubted throughout that it could make any sense or go anywhere.  After several weeks delay, fearfully perusing it in the protective company of a woman friend, I agreed it was indeed a story, but it had not at all resolved the ever-sticky love problem.

 

Not many months later, experiencing severe jealousy for the first time in my life (in relation to yet another woman), I clumsily began a novel about first betrayal and first jealousy[3].  I learned from this a)  that in fact that one was not at all my first experience of jealousy, b)  that she and I had never had a real relationship, c)  that my jealousy then was in relation to my brother rather than to my lover, d)  that all these things had nothing to do with love, e)  that these all came from angry self-centered attitudes within me rather than from any relationship past or present and f)  that jealousy is truly a corrosive state of soul sincerely to be avoided.

 

I was proud of my meager progress in understanding, if not so proud of my literary accomplishment.  I even used my research to advise and benefit an old friend who was in yet another angry control struggle with yet another possessive jealous young man.  With all proper delay I used our healthy nurturing relationship to make love with her, exert many dimensions of possessiveness and control on her, force her to take distance from me in order to protect the freedom and integrity I myself had tutored into her, and thereby I became infantilely jealous and injured when she offered to continue our friendship but not our sexual relationship.

 

Humbly I sit today in a pool of my own sweat, tears and hormones willing to reach for further understanding for you and me.  For me alone I’d rather drown it all in drink or in this shallow pool I have become; but for you I must be willing to work hard toward clarity which might save you suffering––that which, rather than romantic or cynical, can be true and useful.   This may not work, but here goes.

 

Perversions are not Love

 

As I have shown me in my stories, love cannot be conventional, cannot be determined by roles and responsibilities.  It cannot occur for the sake of appearances or the desire to seem “normal.”  Since love cannot be conventional, it cannot be brought about nor sustained by institutions of convention like marriage.

 

Love can be neither selfish or selfless.  Whatever love is, it cannot come from seeking gratification for the self.  But, also, love cannot germinate or grow in seeming selflessness.  Insidious patterns of sickness we have come to call “co-dependence” are always hard to see from within, but when we see them on the soap operas we recognize them instantly as gross efforts to control and possess the other by indirect coercion.  (My career as a clinician, productive of good though it has been, is another example of such “pathologic altruism,” rooted in self-centered erotic fantasy.)

 

Love cannot be contractual.  We can discuss indefinitely the polarity, the push and pull between two persons, but the bottom line is that avaricious seeking for satisfaction of selfish appetites, self-sacrificing devotion to the other, or the ever inadequate “compromise” of trading off concessions and demands will none of them ever have anything to do with love, nor will any of them avoid the deadly acid of jealousy or its equivalents.

 

Love and hate are not merely two sides of the same coin.  Whatever love is, it has nothing whatever to do with hate.  Buber says it best (in Ich und Du[4]):  there is no hate or destruction in the realm of the I-Thou, where real love must be.  Despite his long experience of sharing with his wife Paula Winkler (married over sixty years), Buber’s writing only points toward what love is and what love is not, but he does not hand us the treasure or the key.

 

Jealousy is Learned and Earned

 

Jealousy may have something to do with love, but it is not at all what love is.  Somehow jealousy mutates from love, or from the wish for love.  Perhaps jealousy is the miscarriage or abortion of love.  It seems easier to demarcate jealousy than to define love.

 

“The most jealous persons are those who are not able to love but need the feeling of being loved.”

Otto Fenichel[5]

 

“The basis of jealousy in such cases is an unconscious tendency toward infidelity which is projected onto the partner.”

Otto Fenichel[6]

 

“...clinging to the conscious thoughts of jealousy serves the repression of something else...The obsessive character of jealousy is due, first of all, to the fact that the actual situation that aroused the jealousy reminds the person of a previous similar one that had been repressed...(T)he Oedipus complex...certainly is at the basis of all jealousy...”

Otto Fenichel[7]

 

“...(W)hat causes humiliation and the fall of self-esteem in the jealous person is not the wound of his loss, but his jealousy itself...”

Leslie H. Farber[8]

 

“Jealousy” is an ambiguous term in the English language.  I am “jealous of” who or what I wish to have, but also I am “jealous of” my rival for possession of my treasure (whether that rival is “real” or “imaginary”).  I suspect there is a strong identification with and (good heavens!) homosexual attachment to the rival, anchored in the wish to embrace the mirror self.

 

Etymologically, “jealous” is the same as “zealous.”  Zeal is something I used to have.  For me it came from the need to be right, which I recognize as the primary value in my family relationships from the beginning of my existence.  (These connections are just for me––they may not apply to you at all––but for me they weave a web I begin through the shadows to see; someday, I hope, to see through.)

 

I have done a great deal to sustain my righteousness, including a great deal of stubborn lying.  My altruism is one of the masks I use to cover whatever is behind it all; certainly if I am doing things for the sakes of others I cannot be accused of wrong so easily as if I act more openly selfish.  If I refuse to seem selfish I can neglect, deprive and abuse myself with more facility, which will tend further to justify my anger and self-pity.

 

If I am altruistic I can justify the perpetuation of my stubbornness.  I can continue to be the provocative gadfly who contradicts any conventional notion, the belligerent pacifist who fought for peace, the champion of the underdog, the disruptive social critic whose sensitivity to injustice is intended to be a valued gift to all humankind (never adequately appreciated).

 

When all my self-righteous provocativeness is rejected by others or accepted only by those who find their own self-serving uses for it, my angry inner fires are not quenched but further fueled (and any capacities I have for repeated defiant and compulsive behaviors, ulcers, arthritis and coronary spasm).  But I can deny my anger even as it erodes me, because I am the one who buys my lies the most intensely.

 

I deny my selfishness, so I deny my jealousy.  I wish to believe I would never be selfish, possessive or controlling (for those are characteristics I could not live with in any of my wives).  I wish to deny that I could seem angry or intimidating to anyone, for my demands are not for myself––they are for the sakes of truth and justice.  I am hurt when others respond to me with fear or anger.  I have always been misunderstood.

 

Secrets Hidden Under the Skirts of Love

 

I do not like Doctor Freud’s assumptions that I have selfish drives, nor his daughter’s elaborations about my ego and its mechanisms of defense which serve those drives; nor do I approve that these were formulated before I could freely choose to agree or disagree with the apotheosized Freuds.  However, I very much more resent the contentious Jung’s contentions that much of what I am and experience and do is predetermined by a collective unconscious, that much of what has meaning and beauty is invested in my constitution and in my past, not so much in my mind and eye and heart this moment.  I much prefer Buber’s offer that I live in the timeless now, in immediate relation to each thou who confronts me.

 

I would like to live in authentic relation to whatever is, here and now, but I feel myself the prisoner of my own past.  I fear perceiving this imprisonment as shared with all other such prisoners––I wish to be unique in my suffering, unalterably alone and inconsolable.  (My secret desire is that the more miserable I am the more ardently someone will be coerced to come and comfort me.)  We are each of us in such solitary confinement (and cannot feel our sharing or share our feeling).

 

I waver some and waffle, but I tend to revert in my formal thinking to Freudian individualism (or Leibnitzian monadism, solipsism, solitary confinement in the repeated bonds of self).  I know there should be something called community, but I fear I have been alienated from it, mostly.  I suspect we humans have failed to find community these past ten thousand years, but have been tantalized by ephemeral glimpses of it.  Alone I can complain to my heart’s contempt, but I cannot live in human community all by myself.

 

So, if I might come close to a real other person, usually I drive that one away (to justify my fears of being rejected).  Coming close to another I have experienced jealousy, irrational grasping, anger which is painful.  I would like to laugh at me about this.  I will try to love the fool in me and laugh.  I have looked for relief and resolution for me.  Maybe I can find some equanimity now, somewhat clumsily sharing with you my thoughts about my own faulty character and foolishness, listening for you to say, “Yes, me too; I am that way some.”  I am listening, indeed, to you.

 

Love, hate, jealousy, competition make complex examples for consideration in Buberian terms (or Freudian, or any other, come to think of it).  Competition has something to do with hate, but secretly engenders a kind of love, at least a kind of identification.  I hate my rival, perhaps, but secretly I love him because he is like me, my mirror twin, standing toe to toe, nose to nose against me, in my face.  He may kill me, but I do not care so long as he respects me.

 

I hate the object of my love sometimes, perhaps, but that is only as my simple gross infantile primitive dependencies are not met, as I am deprived of what I cannot even specify.  As my expectations are met (never fully or for long), I love her.  As they may not be met I am anxious and jealous.

 

Two Loves within Me

 

The “love” which engenders jealousy cannot be true love.  Let love be something which fills me, something which calms me, something I do not doubt.  Let love clarify always, not confuse.

 

What have I learned these last few years, as I have grown?  I feel split between the self on the one hand who accepts, supports and nurtures; but on my other hand stomps and bites, the screaming self who demands and grasps.

 

The first of these selves gives very high priority to freedom for himself and for the other person.  He is patient.  He laughs frequently, appreciates as valuable the imperfections and foibles of himself and others.  When he loves, he may suffer some disappointments but he is not capsized by them.  He values the welfare and the arbitrary choices of the other.

 

The screaming infant in me makes no sense, can seem inconsolable.  He causes me deep ripping and persistent pain.  I cannot quiet him easily.  I cannot consider killing him, for that would be suicide.

 

And I realize I love him.  I, the reliable nurturing adult, love this impossible demanding little tyrant.  To the extent I can be my calm whole self I love this fragment of me as if he were another.  This must be the task––mature self-love, at least acceptance of what has seemed unacceptable.

 

Who said a splitting of the self must be pathologic?  Nonsense.  I have found now that acceptance of me is arduously come by, but is prerequisite to the acceptance of any other without possessiveness, interminable suffering, jealousy and hate.  I have not accomplished these, but I have approached close enough to see them.

 

Buber makes clear enough the parameters of the relationships between self and other, from the I of the I-Thou and from the very different but necessary I of the I-It.  He doesn’t make so clear the reflexive relationship of the I(of the I-Thou)-Me or the I(of the I-It)-Me.  (He denies there can be real relationship to self in the way there can be relationship to an other, as Professor Friedman advises me; of which much more almost immediately.)  Those who say they find God within themselves likely mean they have been confronted by the Eternal Thou within the I(of the I-Thou)-Me relationship.  (There is no simpler way for me to put this, than in such algebraic expressions.  Do not be repelled:  take a moment to piece it all together.  Re-read I and Thou, now.)

 

Self-centeredness as the Structural Flaw

 

Since early childhood I have been repelled by selfishness, denied it in myself.  It horrifies  and disgusts me to find it in me today; but since I am more realistic than I was in my twenties, thirties and forties, it no longer surprises me to trip over my self-centeredness.  I wreaked havoc through the surreptitious exercise of my goodness, always self-righteous, stubborn, opinionated, provocative.  If it would save the world from suffering such insufferable boors, I would gladly kill myself or submit to execution.  Perhaps I should ask for hemlock, emulate my haughty-humble mentor Socrates.

 

(I am a terrible name-dropper.  My egotism brings me to call Socrates and Hippocrates and Buber my teachers, Aristotle my intimate, and Edgar Allen Poe my little brother.  Such grandiosity is certainly selfishness out of bounds.)

 

I find myself secretly severely haughty and simultaneously histrionically humble; I am a know-it-all bully, a voluntary scapegoat, a compulsive check-grabber in restaurants and an over-tipper.  My son once said, “Dad, when they start the Third World War, you’ll take responsibility.”  Yet I am crushed at any criticism, panic when any woman finds me imperfect or unpalatable, seek unscrupulously to manipulate her into adoring me, wish her to declare me uncontested the world’s greatest lover, so I can blush flustered and deny it all lamely.

 

I am as self-centered as anyone can be, and so are you.  Each of us is.  The problem is not to obliterate the self, but to find a new way to approach it.  The old ways haven’t worked well, almost haven’t worked at all sometimes.  We have not accomplished human community nor found true love. 

 

How did considerations of true love bring me to self?  I think that is more plausible than it may at first appear.  I could not find love, but I abhorred self-love.  What I could not find was self-acceptance.  Somehow I do not possess my self, even my own body, nor, certainly, any secure future.  I fear fearing being naked, deprived, worthless, rejected.  (Like I said, this is a common agony I am suffering.) 

 

This morning I read my sister’s essay “The Body as Property, a Feminist Re-vision”[9].  I do appreciate her work, but I’ll not try to recapitulate it here, nor to prove to her how well I understand it or remember its intricacies.  I refer to having read it in order to be quite specific, to explain to you and me some of the harmonies it brought up in me to read it, the synchronicities which, to the degree  I am open to them, I encounter every moment of my life.

 

Gender Warfare Imposed on Pacifists

 

I am at odds with many people often.  They do not like my idiom.  I cannot pretend to understand everything about how I and they have made it so, but I only change alienation’s fringes, not my secret heart.  This morning I was aware of a few discrepancies between me and other persons:  a high-level bureaucrat whose irritated call I had to return because against her will I had been communicating about a major change in the government agency I contract with; a dear woman friend who is enmired in her own stuckness, whom I believe I would like to liberate but know I cannot; the several women I have been close to in the past many months, each of whom has broken with me; my brother’s daughter and her friend who are visiting our home; my brother’s wife, whose depression over ancient and current family crises has paralysed her willingness to work; my college-bound daughter who is more critical of her father now than ever.

 

All I have mentioned here are women.  (My sister also is a woman, come to think of it.)  There are men I have had differences with, even this week, but I consider them crotchety old women for not getting along with me.

 

Can this be a sexist problem I have?  No, but like one of the underlying questions of my sister’s essay, my problems with the world in general are rooted in a culture which uses gender roles to hem us all in.  I don’t know exactly how to proceed orderly in this exposition, but I know it will come to criticize our commonly held cultural assumptions about gender roles, and will seek to gather together many shreds of communal blindness elaborated from our faulty assumptions about gender.

 

A few things I have no intention to be distracted into:  my personal idiosyncrasies; sibling rivalry; problems of lust in my life as opposed to problems of gender in our human culture.  (I will always be distracted by the needs of cats; they are the most civilized persons in my world.  I may stop to feed or scratch them while we converse here.)

 

I wonder why persons are not allowed to think, talk and act in infinitely various ways.  I wonder why they are not allowed to relate to each other in freedom.  I wonder why arbitrary social roles are enforced, which keep us from much productivity and innovation.

 

Of course I do not know who I am essentially, or who I could be without society, culture, convention.  I do know I have long since been convinced that human culture for the past ten thousand years has failed––all of it.  I do not know of a group of humans who can raise a child without programmatic trauma, or relate to each other without coercion, or create institutions which are not corrupt.

 

Much of my sister’s discussion of the body as property responds to the work of John Locke[10].  Of course, what he said was in response to his predecessors and to his cultural-historic context.  His work did, in fact, come to be crystallized in American political assumptions.  The goals he sought promoted freedom and productivity for each citizen.  The citizen he assumed for human society happened to be the adult male, European.

 

Please understand, I love and respect ghosts, and most of the time I find reason to forgive them.  I forgive John Locke for any imperfections in his work, knowing he worked sincerely, knowing none of us could tolerate perfection anyhow.  The problem is, he left me little room to seek any life but that of a materialistic individualistic gun-toting white male.  I will always be ill-suited to such a role.

 

The body as property?  Am I the only one who has ignored his own body?  Haven’t I heavily depended on it as I have survived decades of self-neglect?  Where have I lived, if not in my body?  Where is my self, if not within my body?

 

Locke meant to simplify relationships by demarcating property lines between persons, but instead of community among persons which allows I-Thou relationship his approach left a society of entitled individuals related by contract (always in the I-It mode).

 

Locke had the same problem with society vs. community that I have had with self-serving love vs. true love.  This is not only a problem of ignoring the other person, but also a problem of not considering the self broadly enough.  We make numerous sorts of errors when we make assumptions about our selves.  Locke was influenced by the mechanistic and male-centered approaches of many of his most brilliant predecessors and contemporaries.  I have been perverted in a parallel fashion, haunted by the tyrannical infant I must earlier have been.

 

The Body as Property:

Locke and the Pope vs. my Big Sister and her Little Brother

 

In her treatment of the body as property Doctor Petchesky considers implications of the person somehow being property of herself or himself.  She makes it clear a person is only a person in relation to a community.  (It is a tribute to her consistency and integrity that she was focusing on the same target thirty years earlier[11].)

 

She refers to Diggers and Levellers in Revolutionary England, their attempts to establish shared rights of access to communal property, and to establish sovereignty over their own persons analogous to royal sovereignty over the state as a whole.  She sketches the development of political and conceptual changes which rapidly proceeded from Hobbes to Locke to Blackstone, catalysed by Cromwell’s reactionary Puritanism.  The change went from person to object, that is legal status shifted from being someone to owning something.

 

Because American politics and economics emerged especially from Locke’s conceptions it is difficult for us as Americans to understand freedom defined in terms other than those of private property.  In other words, it is difficult for us to understand how a person can be real or important except as owner or voter.  We are concretely materialistic, understand relationships only in terms which are adversarially I-It.  In the marketplace, in the court or on the battlefield we identify winners and losers.  We have little concept of persons living enmeshed in the intricate flow of common welfare.

 

Seeing power and wealth as reality blinds us to human values and human relationships.  If feminists make the mistake of trying to wrest power from a male establishment they will not only lose the battle, but will also lose their integrity as the more competent coalition to engender and nurture, to reestablish a world of the living and growing.  I concede to women no monopoly over humanness, but I certainly cannot trust the male-dominated arenas of trade, legislature and warfare to do other than to destroy the world of the living, to establish a world of the humanly dead.

 

My sister, responsible and respectable political scientist and activist, refers to Foucault and Marx more readily than to Buber.  I am not surprised, but find it more than mere coincidence that she engages the understanding of relationship rather than of object when discussing “property.”  Our mother’s brother (scholar and activist himself) studied Buber assiduously, brought much of Buber’s work into English[12].  Buber’s idiom made sense to the infantile experience in my own life from long before I had heard of him from my uncle.  I see reflected in my brother David’s values and priorities that he (an activist communalist environmentalist community psychiatrist) carries this with him also.  As dissident clinician and poet, I myself must emphasize personal relation above material object.  It seems only natural that any real human person––from my own family or not––will live humanness in terms Buber has outlined.

 

The Nature of Relationship:  Love and Community

 

I have had trouble understanding relationships because I have never been especially successful in them.  I have avoided simplistic and mechanistic explanations of relationships.  I advise Locke to be cautious likewise.  His predecessor Thomas Hobbes[13] likened society to a single human organism, a faulty but attractive model.  (He did not say, as almost universally misquoted, that “the life of man” is by necessity “poor, nasty, brutish and short,” but that in the absence of society it would be.)  Like Buber, Hobbes lived an authentic life to a good old age.  He played tennis at eighty I have heard.  Those two fellows each survived several regimes without execution.  (Now, there is some sort of success to be emulated.)